This blog is My musings as a Dom of several years. It is meant to educate and as such will develop as time goes on. There is a difference between educating and training. I believe that to learn techniques you need to have a mentor who has developed the proper respective skills (training)that is best learned hands on. Education, on the other hand is the dispersal of information. Thank you for viewing My blog and please feel free to comment.
Sunday, November 21, 2010
CHILDREN AND BDSM
The BDSM life is between consenting parties. Children, by definition, are not able to consent. This goes for both participation AND knowing or seeing what is going on. When people involved in BDSM are together whether for a scene or a full relationship they consent to be together. Do not involve people who have not (or are unable to) consent to the activities. You know your children better than anyone else, or at least I would certainly hope you do. Therefore, you know, or should anyhow, know how much information/exposure they can handle. I have heard of a situation, and this is strictly here say, where a "Dom" took on a slave AND her thirteen year old daughter. He supposedly impregnated both of them and they gave birth fairly closely together, this is not only WRONG, it is illegal. There was also a case where a couple that were out in public. The "Dom" started participating in hum (humiliation) play. There was another couple who are also in the life, and they were made uncomfortable by the situation and they KNEW what was going on. You can only imagine if people who knew what was going on and were uncomfortable with the situation were going through, what were the people around them thinking (and there MIGHT have been children around). PLEASE use discretion in your activities.
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