This blog is My musings as a Dom of several years. It is meant to educate and as such will develop as time goes on. There is a difference between educating and training. I believe that to learn techniques you need to have a mentor who has developed the proper respective skills (training)that is best learned hands on. Education, on the other hand is the dispersal of information. Thank you for viewing My blog and please feel free to comment.
Tuesday, November 9, 2010
AFTERCARE
While I have never met any, that I know of, I have heard that there are Dom's that do not believe in aftercare. In My not so humble opinion, I believe that it is critical. Following any intense session, a sub/slave needs to be held while they are coming down from sub space. The physical contact provided by a firm, yet comfortable embrace is very reassuring. A sub may experience there entire bodies quivering from time to time as there muscles relax and the endorphins flowing through their body subside. The comfort of being held helps them both physically and I believe psychologically as well. It also helps them know that the Dom cares about their well being. It has been proven that people NEED to be held from time to time, and following an intense "beating" is the ultimate time for that.
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