This blog is My musings as a Dom of several years. It is meant to educate and as such will develop as time goes on. There is a difference between educating and training. I believe that to learn techniques you need to have a mentor who has developed the proper respective skills (training)that is best learned hands on. Education, on the other hand is the dispersal of information. Thank you for viewing My blog and please feel free to comment.
Friday, November 19, 2010
POLYAMORY
Before entering into a poly relationship think long and hard about it. Between two people, there is one dynamic, and that is often more than a couple can handle. If you are in a relationship and bring just one more person into the "family" you have gone from one dynamic to four dynamics A-B, B-C, A-C and A-B-C. Bring another person in and it just multiplies geometrically A-B, A-C, A-D, B-C, B-D, C-D, A-B-C, A-B-D, A-C-D, B-C-D & A-B-C-D. Often it is hard enough for a couple to get along and each additional person in the relationship just exacerbates any problems in the relationship. Also, it is critical that the sub's/slave's all get along with one another so as to alleviate any potential jealousy. In fact, while trust and respect in BDSM between the Dom/sub or Dom/slave relationship in a poly relationship, it is My opinion that the relationship between the sub's/slave's is even more critical... so if you are an insecure Dom you would be better off NOT entering into a poly relationship. Actually, if you are an insecure Dom, you would be better off NOT getting involved with ANY sub/slave... let alone entering into a poly relationship.
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