WHAT IS BDSM

BDSM is an acronym for Bondage/Discipline, Domination/Submission, Sadism/Masochism.  It can be as simple as tying your partner to the bed once in awhile and tormenting them with a feather to COMPLETE control of their life.  BDSM is SAFE, SANE AND CONSENSUAL... All parties involved must use judgement and common sense (although these days there is NOTHING common about common sense).  The last thing any self respecting Dom wants to do is send their sub/slave to the hospital or the morgue.  This is where the trust comes in - the sub/slave Must trust their Dom to keep them safe... if you don't know the Dom how can you trust them to have your best interests at heart.  I have heard that ten to fifteen percent of the population actively practices the life but almost any couple who have been in a relationship for any period of time has probably experimented with parts of the life... tying their partner to the bed (bondage), blindfolds (sensory deprivation), spanking (sadomasochism), etc.